"Mademoiselle de l'Enclos writes about love, the heart, and women..."
INTRODUCTION TO LETTERS ABOUT LOVEThe celebrated Abbe de Chateauneuf, in his "Dialogues on AncientMusic," refers to Mademoiselle de l'Enclos under the name of"Leontium," a name given her by le Marechal de Saint-Evremond, and in his eulogy upon her character, lays great stress on the genius displayed in her epistolary style. After censuring the affectation to be found in the letters of Balzac and Voiture, the learned Abbe says: "The letters of Leontium, although novel in their form of expression, although replete with philosophy, and sparkling with wit and intelligence contain nothing stilted, or overdrawn. "Inasmuch as the moral to be drawn from them is always seasoned with sprightliness, and the spirit manifested in them, displays the characteristics of a liberal and natural imagination, they differ in nothing from personal conversation with her choice circle of friends. "The impression conveyed to the mind of their readers is, that she is actually conversing with them personally." Mademoiselle de l'Enclos writes about love, the heart, and women.Strange subjects, but no woman ever lived who was better able to do justice to them. In her frame of mind, she could not see men without studying their dispositions, and she knew them thoroughly, her experience extending over a period of seventy-five years of intimate association with men of every stamp, from the Royal prince to the Marquis de Sevigne, the latter wearying her to such an extent that shedesignated him as "a man beyond definition; with a soul of pulp, a body of wet paper, and a heart of pumpkin fricasseed in snow," his own mother, the renowned Madame de Sevigne, admitting that he was "a heart fool." Ninon took this weak Chevalier in charge and endeavored to make a man of him by exposing his frailties, and, entering into a longcorrespondence, to instruct him in the pathology of the female heart,with which he was disposed to tamper on the slightest provocation. Her letters will show that she succeeded finally in bringing him to reason, but that in doing so, she was compelled to betray her own sex by exposing the secret motives of women in their relations with men. That she knew women as well as men, can not be disputed, for,beginning with Madame de Maintenon and the Queen of Sweden, Christine, down along the line to the sweet Countess she guards so successfully against the evil designs of the Marquis de Sevigne, including Madame de La Fayette, Madame de Sevigne, Madame de La Sabliere, and the most distinguished and prominent society women of France, they all were her particular friends, as well as intimates, and held her in high esteem as their confidante in all affairs of the heart. Profound Insights About LOve Into The Human HeartNo other woman ever held so unique a position in the world of society as Mademoiselle de l'Enclos, and her letters to the Marquis de Sevigne may, therefore, be considered as standards of the epistolary art upon the subjects she treats; as containing the most profound insight into the female heart where love is concerned, and as forming a study of the greatest value in everything that pertains to the relations between the sexes. There is an entire absence of mawkish sentimentality, of effort to conceal the secret motives and desires of the heart beneath specious language and words of double meaning. On the contrary, they tear away from the heart the curtain of deceit, artifice and treachery, to expose the nature of the machinery behind the scenes. These letters must be read in the light of the opinions of the wisest philosophers of the seventeenth century upon her character. Stupid Mistakes About Love
"Inasmuch as the first use she (Mademoiselle de l'Enclos) made of her reason, was to become enfranchised from vulgar errors, it isimpossible to be further removed from the stupid mistake of those who, under the name of "passion," elevate the sentiment of love to the height of a virtue. NInon understood love to be what it really is, a taste founded upon the senses, a blind sentiment, which admits of no merit in the object which gives it birth, and which promises no recompense; a caprice, the duration of which does not depend upon our volition, and which is subject to remorse and repentance."
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The First Letter About Love - A Hazardous Undertaking The Second Letter About Love - Love Is Dangerous The Third Letter About Love - Love Grows Cold The Forth Letter About Love - The Spice of Love The Fifth Letter About Love - Love Grows Cold The sixth Letter About Love - Certain Maxims Concerning Love The Seventh Letter About Love - Women Expect a Quid Pro Quo From Men The Eigthth Letter About Love - Primitive Love The Nineth Letter About Love - Natural Inclincation The Tenth Letter About Love - Love Sensations The Eleventh Letter About Love - Friendship and love
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